Kane Brown Reveals the Heartbreaking Family Story Behind His New Song, “When You Forget”
Kane Brown’s highly anticipated new album, The High Road, is a powerhouse collection of 18 tracks that showcase his signature blend of country, pop, and R&B. While the album is full of hits, fans are discovering that the final song holds a uniquely emotional weight. The track, titled “When You Forget,” is a deeply personal ballad, and as Kane himself revealed, it’s the only one on the record that brought him to tears while writing it.
The reason for its profound impact? The song is a poignant tribute born from a painful family journey.
A Tribute to the “Hardest Working Man I Know”
In a candid and moving post on Instagram, Kane Brown pulled back the curtain on the inspiration behind the song: his grandfather’s ongoing battle with Alzheimer’s disease. Sharing a cherished photo of his grandparents, he opened up about the man who shaped him and the difficulty of watching his memories fade.
“The hardest working man I know and will ever know! I hope I can be half the man he is today,” Kane wrote with heartfelt admiration.
He then shared the emotional experience of channeling his feelings into his music. “This is the only song on the album that brought some tears writing. He’s been forgetting some things lately. It’s a terrible disease (Alzheimer’s), and I hope everyone going through the same thing my family and I are can relate to this song.”
His touching message concluded with a simple, powerful declaration of love: “I love you, pepaw.”
A Song That Hits Home for the Whole Family
This isn’t the first time Kane has woven his family life into his art. The High Road also features beautiful duets with his wife, Katelyn, further cementing how central his loved ones are to his musical identity. But “When You Forget” touches a particularly raw and vulnerable nerve, not just for Kane, but for his entire family.
In a recent interview with Holler, Kane shared just how deeply the song affected his grandmother. “Getting to call my Nana and tell her that we were going to write a song about him… you could hear her tearing up over the phone,” he recounted. It’s a testament to the song’s power that it could serve as a tribute that his whole family could share in, even amidst the sadness.
The track’s raw honesty and vulnerability are already making it a standout on the album, which just dropped last week. Fans are connecting with its message on a profound level, as it gives voice to the difficult, often unspoken, heartbreak that countless families face when a loved one battles Alzheimer’s or dementia.
It’s real, it’s powerful, and it’s a beautiful reminder that music can be a source of comfort and connection in our most challenging times. Grab a tissue and listen to the moving tribute below. Let us know in the comments how this incredible song hit home for you.
Kane Brown, “When You Forget”
Lyrics:
I walked in the room, looked in your eyes / And I could tell right then you didn’t recognize / The man I’ve become, and it tore me up / But that’s just what time sometimes does
Your memory’s fading, it’s breaking my heart / If you look in that mirror and wonder who you are
Chorus:
You’re still our hero / You’re still the man / Hell of a father and a damn good friend / You can fix any problem with a wrench or some words / The backbone of our family in the front of that church / You kept every promise / For worse or for better / I’m writing you this / So when you forget, you can remember
We were turning them roads when you taught me to drive / You’ve been wearing that ring since July of ’55 / You kept food on that table, lights on in that house / So don’t ever question, no don’t ever doubt
Repeat Chorus
Your memory’s fading, it’s breaking my heart / If you look in that mirror and wonder who you are…